Aby-a-Day – February 3: Sleep, that knits up the ravell’d sleeve of care (Friday Flashback)

The post I made last week reminded me of the first weekend I had Jacoby. Even though he’d only just met me, and we didn’t choose each other, he crashed out next to me for a nap.

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Considering his brother, Gun-Hee, seemed to never sleep at all, it was a wonderful and precious thing to me that Jake felt happy enough to nap with me like that.

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And it’s even nicer when he does it today. Not only did Gun-Hee never sleep (we think it’s because he knew, somehow, he would have a short life and he wanted to make the most of the time he had), but, until he got sick at the end, he never slept on the bed with us. Jake, however, is always there when I wake up in the morning.

I love it. I’m not, by any stretch of the most imaginative imaginations, a morning person…but he helps.

Aby-a-Day – January 26: “One of the ways in which cats show happiness is by sleeping.”

My husband took today’s photos. I’d been watching television and fell asleep (which is why I’m sleeping with my glasses on).

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Jacoby usually does sleep with me, but he almost always sleeps near my legs, usually behind my knees. Still, it’s pretty good for an Aby; Gun-Hee never slept at all, and Angel usually prefers to sleep on the cat tree than on the bed.

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But for whatever reason, he decided to sleep right next to my head this time.

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Granted, I didn’t really know he was sleeping there until I woke up, so I don’t know how long he was there, but it was a nice thing to wake up to.

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“Okay, Dad, enough with the camera and the flash. You’re gonna wake her up.”

Aby-a-Day – Day 269 of 365

Good news! We put Angel’s round fleece cat bed (which has a charming Siamese cat print on it; I got it in 1995 for my Siamese, Harri) into one of the new Ramvik tables (with the glass shelf omitted) and just left it there for her to find.

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And find it she did.

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It’s hard to tell if she likes it more or less than underneath the old coffeetable, for two reasons: one, there was a Red Sox-Yankees game on ESPN, so Angel was on the TV table all night; and two, Kylie’s been in that bed since Dave put her in it because Angel was watching the game.

Aby-a-Day – Day 239 of 365

We have six dining room chairs in our living room waiting for the table to be brought out of storage. They are gathered in a corner, and over time have had blankets and cat beds arranged on them in a way that pleases the feline members of the family.

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It gets a lot of use, especially on sunny afternoons.

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I’m not sure what about it the cats love, but I have a feeling that they’re going to be sad when we bring in the table.

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Some more than others. Angel really loves the chair fort.

Aby-a-Day – Day 71 of 365

When she relaxes, Angel really relaxes. She’s still quite skittish and nervous some of the time, but when she feels safe and secure (which is more and more often these days), it’s a heartwarming thing of beauty.

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I only worry about one thing…what will she do when we finally get around to building the IKEA coffee table we got to replace that glass thing she loves to sleep under so much?